ArcaMax

Q: My 15-year-old son seems to be thinking seriously about career choices and wondering what to do with his life as an adult. What can I do now to help him settle on a path and make wise plans for the future?

Jim: I'd suggest starting by exposing him to as many different occupations as possible. Give him a taste of the wide variety of career ...Read more

Q: I'm a high-energy person; being busy keeps me happy. I get bored if I'm not doing something -- career, church, socializing, hobbies, volunteer work, etc. A well-meaning friend suggested I slow down but that seems like a waste to me. What's your take?

Jim: Many busy people consider rest to be wasted time. They see an empty space where ...Read more

Q: I recently became an instant stepparent when I married a relatively young widower with two children. I'm doing my best to learn how to be "mom" for my stepkids. But it's a LOT harder to connect than I expected. Help!?

Jim: Stepparenting can be rewarding, but it also comes with significant challenges. In your case, there's the added factor of...Read more

Q: Now that my husband and I are empty nesters, we have more time on our hands and want to invest it in something else meaningful. Can you offer any suggestions?

Jim: During the parenting season, we understandably place great emphasis on the next generation: the children growing up today who will become the leaders of tomorrow. That's certainly...Read more